August 26th, 2009 by PatheticDad
Feeling or labeling yourself a victim of your divorce is one of the most disastrous moves you can make. It will prevent you from moving forward into a new life. Victim hood renders you powerless. To create a new life after your divorce takes a person who is fully responsible for their past, present and future.
The best set of words to describe being depressed married life is pain, loneliness, and, maybe, even torture. There is no intimacy, unlimited amount of work, and not too much fun. This is enough for anyone to break. But you still love him, feel sorry for him, or feel that it leaving him is not a good option, so you stick around.Compel women to be attracted to you. Learn formulas to attract women so that finally women will approach you. Tactics guaranteed to boost confidence! Click pleasing your partner.
It is so much easier to place blame on someone else then accept personal responsibility. The fact is that two people inhabit all marriages. Those two people are co-creators of their marriage and their divorce. Even if one of the partners was unfaithful or a liar, there are always signs along the way that we either refused to see or to acknowledge.
At the outset, one of the most common reasons why marriages fail is that people will not listen to one another to seek understanding. In today’s society there are very few people who would listen to what others say and seek improvement from that. After marriage, people think that they already know everything about their spouse, when in fact; they could know just the opposite.
A huge chunk of singles and divorced people are by fact sexually starved. They do not call the shots like married people would at anytime of the day or night. Sex in this case refers not just to the physical act, but a wholesome emotionally fulfilling sex life which feels divine. Some people get married due to pressure from family and society in general. So as not to feel like the odd one out, many enter into marriage relationships.
Speaking of cheating, loyalty is a very big issue concerning marriages. A very high reason for the fifty percent of marriage failures is the lack of loyalty between the man and the woman. Obviously, when the person said that they would take care of one another and to love their partner at the wedding chapel, they were not telling the truth. Why do men run away from love? Here’s how to know if he’s lost attraction for you, and how to avoid the common mistakes that make good men leave, click online dating advice.
There are a tremendous amount of people and their spouses who suffer from depression. Don’t allow yourself to become addicted to other people’s opinions and don’t fall in the victim thinking so you will not be part of this unfortunate statistic.
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August 4th, 2009 by PatheticDad
How “Patience” should a man be?
Well, if you have seen those discovery channels or animal planet, we know that those male “will fight to bleed” and chase away any males should they approach his mate
After all, they are animal.
But we human being were given or born with the 6th sense to be “patience”.
Every human being has it’s own limit to “Endure” suffering and where’s the limit?
What will you do?
If you were to find in your wife’s purse a hidden photo taken together with her Lover Boy.
photo found inside her purse (infront with so called husband and hidden behind is taken with her boyfriend?)
cosy night outing, suppose to be working in night shift
Is this LUST or LOVE…
There's No True Love..... in this world..... All You Need Is "MONEY" ..... and the Marriage Vow is a Bullshit...
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August 4th, 2009 by PatheticDad
At the beginning of a new relationship most of us will go out of our way to impress our new love. We do all the little things that we believe will make us more appealing and we strive to make the new person in our life feel special in every way. It’s no secret that modern life is fast-paced and getting faster every day.
In this world, relationships-and all the work they require-can easily be seen as inefficient, time-consuming and simply not gratifying enough. But oftentimes we lose touch with that desire to please. Perhaps it is due to life being busy or maybe we simply begin taking that special someone for granted.
Whatever the reason, if this has happened to you then it is time to freshen and renew those actions, it really is the little things that keep the love alive in a relationship! For your relationship to have a healthy chance at survival, you must take steps to nurture the simple, loving aspects of your union. Get into more important information for healthy relationship-Save my marriage today
Greeting your partner and saying good-bye are quick and easy to do but often overlooked in the chaos of hectic schedules. A warm, expressive greeting can set the stage for the entire day. An affectionate “good-bye” allows you and your partner to emotionally hold on to loving feelings while separated from each other. Think back to a time when your relationship was new. What did you and your partner talk about? Probably, anything and everything. The excitement of new love propels us to share even the smallest details of our day. Unfortunately that level of sharing often dwindles as relationships mature and responsibilities mount.
Touch is a powerful way to communicate affection and foster intimacy. Touch also has a calming effect on our bodies, so if you want to create a relaxed, loving atmosphere and make your partner feel special, lean into each other the next time you’re at the movies or watching TV. Be very clear about what your expectations are for the time you have together. This is where many relationships break down. Think of the ways you want to be treated by your spouse and treat your spouse even better. Your rewards will keep growing and your benefits will improve measurably.If you are interested in more information check out this : Mistakes In Romance
The relationship will not be one of convenience, but one of choice. The actual act of re-choosing our partners, of knowing they are the one’s we want to be with, is the culmination of the reconnecting and romance we’ve found.
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August 1st, 2009 by PatheticDad
Well, this is not just another article for a blog. This is a real true life story.
8 years ago, I caught my wife and her boyfriend about their affairs. Warn both of them to stop it or else I will take legal action on him and will file a divorce (my kids were just 5 & 6 years old)
Since the guy was working under work permit as construction worker, he will be barred/banned from entering Singapore, if I were to make a report to the ministry of manpower.
Since my wife ask to forgive her and never to see him again forever and stating that his future will be jeopardize and he needs to support his aged old parents and his siblings back home in India, I let him go.
And I thought of my family harmony and my 2 kid’s future (to avoid our family break-up), I have been patient tolerating it for over 8 years keeping it to myself.. 
They promise me they will not see each other forever but verbal promise is nothing to them.
But seems they are seeing each other, going out to hotels and parks at night and I even found a photo of them taken together in a park at night.
If file for a divorce, my kids will suffer? The “LAW” always supports the women and will give custody to the mother. (I have been hiding this from my kids,) they love their mother very, very much.
By following the mother…. will my kids get good family ethics and value from her?
If they were to find out the truth about their mother’s affair being the reason for the divorce….. I am afraid and worried they will be depressed and affect their studies as well as their future.
Will my son & daughter (15 & 14) be able to face the truth or reality as a MAN & LADY about the mother affairs at this schooling age?
Because of her… I am already depressed and had a heart attach and not sure when will be the next one How long do I or should I suffer?
Should I make a report to the MINISTRY OF MANPOWER or seeks help from the MINISTRY OF COMMUNITY DEVELOPMENT or SHOULD I FILE A DIVORCE, let them go and let them live happily together.
And ours was a “Love Marriage” that’s “Pathetic…..” now I realize why my son called me so… intentionally or what so ever…
Things I do and have been doing…? And gradually losing interest in doing so..
- Help in the house… like cooking, marketing & purchasing (including “whisper” & others etc.,)
- Washing, drying & ironing all our clothes (including her panties etc., well, I find it’s nothing wrong to do so, when she wash & dry my under pants)
- Driving her to work and fetch her from work (I have no choice, now I am just doing it as a commitment)
- Massage her legs & her body, as and when she needs it.
- I don’t gamble,
- I don’t drink (now I started to drink),
- I don’t womanize or go clubbing (except when I go out with my clients to club for socialization)
- Have been Earning enough money for the family (now unable to focus in my business and totally lost my interest in it)
- I am still “Strong & Active” for her personal fantasy and needs
- I am not a women beater., believe a man don’t beat his women.
- ok, average looking (my mum is Chinese & dad is Indian)
I have been asking myself, What’s wrong or missing in me….. Being a good friend, honest, practical, caring, down-to-earth, humorous ….. expect I can’t dance or sing songs
I wonder….. OUT THERE, WHAT’S EXACTLY ARE WOMEN LOOKING FOR IN THEIR MAN….?
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